Honesty-A key to a Relationship

Ahh..atlast I am finally writing an article after such a long time..i am actually overwhelmed to write an article on a quality which is most vital according to me to form bonds of TRUST in human relationships!!

Honesty, as per its definition, is obviously the act of telling the truth and is a state of mind. It is an ATTITUDE...a CODE. Today in our modern materialistic society we really need the trait and quality of honesty. But before that we must learn what the word ‘honesty’ means? Different people will have different opinions about honesty like—

1) Telling the truth.

2) Being truthful, trustworthy, honorable, fair, genuine, and loyal with integrity.

3) A straightforward conduct.

4) Free from fraud or deception, humble, innocent, simple and creditable.

5) Opposite of lying, the opposite of bluffing, the opposite of hypocrisy and the opposite of deceit.

To me ‘honesty’ is the NAME OF SINCERITY; it's the PURITY OF HEART and also the reverence for GOD!!

One needs to be honest with oneself and needs to understand WHAT IS THAT YOU WANT and THE REASONS YOU WANT IT!! This way, you won’t hurt anybody’s feelings.

From a woman’s point of view, there are two types of honesty:

1) Honesty seeking a reaction or approval from someone else.

2) Being honest with you and not seeking a reaction from anyone else and being GENUINE.

When you are honest with a woman, do not expect a reaction you are being a man. Women will respect you so much more if you are honest with them.

By being honest to woman would convey all the right signals. It shows her that you know what you want, which MOST MEN DON’T KNOW WHAT IT IS THEY WANT and get into a relationship for the wrong reasons!!

I’ve seen many men who are scared to tell the truth, befooling themselves, because they think it is wrong or it’s going to scare the woman away. But the fact is the more you lie to women the more problems you are causing in the relationship!!

It confuses me so much to why men lie to woman when it is ultimately going to result in causing more pain..??

There are people who say, “Ohh I simply forgot to tell u about this in this situation, or forgot to tell you about that in a situation..” N guess, you would never gonna be believable!! Thus, BELIEVABLE-NESS is critical in the HONESTY!! When a question comes up and the other person wants to know, give it the full picture because when you do not give a full picture, your credibility will certainly go down to ZERO!!

Wot I personally believe is dat , “Its better to clear the air in the beginning that to have questions after the facts”

Honesty is something which shines like a light through your eyes!!

Atlast,

"The foundation stones for a balanced success in a relationship or otherwise are--Honesty, Character, Integrity, Faith, Love and Loyalty"

Yet another blooper?!!

Hmm..m here to write about funny mistakes I’ve done in the past 5 months—from jan till may’09, which has left me in some really embarrassing moments..Here it goes..

1) Jeannie in a bottle baby

It was the day when I went to purchase a gift for my buddy, pranali on 26^th feb at hallmark stores in gandhinagar. I picked up a nice bottle of Charlie Perfume & kept on gazing at for long, when a lil kid dashed with me. The bottle which I was inspecting before few secs took no long time to be converted into pieces and the liquid being spilled everywhere on the floor & even on my pants. God..i generally so good when it comes to handling things, never let them drop here & there was left blank as everybody kept on starting at me as if they’d seen some alien from Mars!!

2) The Testimonial Business

I’d made my mind to pen down few traits of pankaj in around march or so..thanks to the testimonial services of orkut! It was that day I’d cum across an informal English term ‘bimbo’ which I thot meant ‘slow brains’ ( which actually was absolutely incorrect, rather it meant girls with no brain). I pre-maturely took a decision of putting it into use without confirming its meaning in the dictionary or over the internet. To my wildest imaginations I addressed him twice using the term in his testimonial! Wot a blooper!! It was a good laugh for the moron. Though as always he corrected me, but I was left in an embarrassing situation again!

3) New Blunder on a New Year

Ahh is internet a reliable source of information??! I say NO! Not always..It was this sindhi new year in around march end, when I texted all my sindhi friends greeting them & giving them best wishes for their new year. I’d gotta know about this over the internet. None of my friends responded to my message, & I felt really disgusting bout that..But it was no that late when my jijosa, my sweetest sister’s sindhi prince told me that it wasn’t their new year dat day, rather they’ll be celebrating it on the coming day..Me as always, simply uttered the 2-letter word ‘OK’

4) Jeans turning into Jean Capris

It was this day when I went along with ankita on her Active scooter to shop for clothes. She drives awesome, hav no doubt or fear about her driving. But it was when we reached the Helmet circle, and an idiotic guy dashed his Hyundai Accent (see I remember the car even) with her scooter & the car bumper which hit my leg tore my bell jeans and transformed them into a Capri!! Dint go for shopping then..huh..

5) A Walk to Remember

Dada (my bro) wot to say about him?!! I was there to help him out to tie his tie with a Windsor knot in one the reception ceremonies at Cama hotel, a’bad, when afterwards he disappeared from the place to attend a phone call. I, unaware about the fact held the sleeves of somebody standing beside me, thinking it was him & started walking. It was when I actually heard dada calling my nick name from behind, I realized that I’d held the hand of a stranger..Godd.. it dint took even a microsecond for me to leave him.. :D

A Poem

Somewhere in your mind,
Somewhere deep down,
Inside of yourself
There is a rage
For something better!
(Something new)

All of your dreams,
All of your anticipations,
They cause a drive
To make us stronger!
(Keep it alive)
Chase your thoughts
Chase your dreams
Into the night,

Chase your thoughts
Chase your dreams
Keep it alive!
Our time is now
Take hold of the lighting

Ride to the stars,
Break free the shell,
That has you imprisoned
(Escape tonight)

All the fruits
That life has in store
Someday we all will learn
To give our love once more
Fight!
For your heart
Fight!
For your soul
Never give in
Chase your dreams!
Oh can't you see
It's just outside
Of your grasp
You've got to reach out
With both hands
Grab that tiger by the tail!!