LOVE is a huge word!!

We often sit & think about how it would be to be in Love, what it is actually like being in Love, is it actually good or bad to deeply passionately Love somebody, is it really good to care for somebody more than you care for yourself, most importantly is that what you feel is Love only - and not those loose physical attractions or infatuations..

Define the four-letter word LOVE-
“Love- It’s a great feeling. It makes you feel great. The very thought of being in love with someone is great, sharing special precious moments, sharing talks, sharing life. Doing crazy things together, fighting over small small topics & then setting your so-called ego aside & surrendering to your partner, making memories and then being together to remember those memories. Laugh over them, cry over them. Seems its all the great good things you feel! You close your eyes, you see him and smile at the very thought of him. You are so very sure that you love him to the core..You love that person more than yourself..more than anything else..any of your possessions..
Isn’t it??
Think again..

Love is not that simple..
Imagine your love is unwell for a while. Is unable to move out of bed..So sick that need care & attention all the time. Need you, your entire time. Will you be there?? Will you be there all the time, time till they become very fine?? You know there’ll be vomit. Will you be ready to move closer to their back to pat them & to make it easy for them?? Or would you simply jump back with a disgusted look? Will you clean their vomit? Will be there sitting beside their bed whole night jus to ensure that they sleep properly? Will you be there to wake up in the middle of the night to give them medicine? Will you caryy them to the bathroom no matter how tired you are? Will you be there to provide help during any time of the day or night? To make something as small as tea or coffee or a bowl of soup even at 3 A.M? Will you be patient? Will you still experience that love you imagined earlier when you closed your eyes & saw his/her face? Does it still seem pretty?Or do you leave them to deal with their sickness alone?? Are you strong enough? Is your love string enough? Are you ready to sacrifice for them- sacrifice everything for a while & just be with them – sacrifice your time, money, job, friends, comfort, relaxation, life? Can you?? Are you strong enough? Is your love strong enough?? ? It's not easy and not everyone can do it.
Think again. Think hard. Be sure.

Everything in LOVE is not happy. & great. There are testing moments always thrown in between. To test your affection, To test your promise, Your strength., Your support. Moments that test your love, that test YOU!! You can not say that you love someone because you feel like spending nice time with them, because you have fun with them all the while. You can not say you love someone because you want to see the world with them. When you realize that you can be with someone and be there for them always, no matter what, no matter what other things demand, then it's “TRUE LOVE”. When you know that no force in the world can break the promise you made, then it's “TRUE LOVE”. When doing something for the one you love gives you a pleasure, unmatched to when your most cherished dream came true, then it's “TRUE LOVE”. When that tiniest twinkle in the eyes of the one you love gives you immense happiness, makes you forget all your worries & sorrows, then it’s “TRUE LOVE”. When amidst all the gloom, you are able to smile, smile for them, to make them feel well, then that's “TRUE LOVE”. When you derive pleasure by surrendering to the one you love, then that is “TRUE LOVE”.

So if you think you are in love, always think about the other side of love as well. Think different. Feel different. Evolve Continuously. Experience something greater. Love differently!!